In The Real Estate Classroom - Jamie, teacher and real estate agent Jamie McKenty often explains real estate terms that can sound complicated but are actually much easier to understand once they're broken down.
One of those terms is earnest money.
And while buyers are usually the ones putting the money down, earnest money is something both buyers and sellers should understand because it can play an important role in the offer and throughout the transaction.

So, What Exactly Is Earnest Money?
Earnest money is essentially a good-faith deposit a buyer agrees to make as part of a real estate transaction.
For the buyer, it's a way of saying:
“I'm serious about purchasing this home, and I'm putting money behind my offer.”
For the seller, the earnest money deposit can be one part of evaluating an offer and the buyer's commitment to the transaction.
This can become especially important when a seller is reviewing multiple offers.
But Jamie reminds sellers that the earnest money amount is just one piece of the overall offer. Price, financing, contingencies, timelines, and other terms can matter too.
Where Does the Earnest Money Actually Go?
This is a question Jamie hears from buyers all the time.
Does the seller immediately receive the money?
Typically, no.
The deposit is generally held in an escrow account by the party designated in the agreement rather than simply being handed directly to the seller.
If the transaction successfully closes, the earnest money is generally credited toward the amount the buyer owes at closing according to the terms of the transaction.
So buyers shouldn't think of earnest money as an extra fee that simply disappears.
What Happens If the Sale Doesn't Close?
This is where both buyers and sellers need to pay close attention.
What happens to the earnest money if a transaction falls apart depends on why the transaction ended and what the contract says.
Depending on the agreement, buyers may have certain protections through contingencies such as inspections or financing. However, those protections may also come with specific requirements and deadlines that need to be followed.
That's why Jamie cautions buyers against assuming:
“If I change my mind, I'll automatically get my earnest money back.”
But the same applies to sellers.
A seller shouldn't automatically assume:
“The buyer backed out, so I automatically get their deposit.”
The circumstances and the terms of the agreement matter.
Buyers: Understand What You're Agreeing To
When making an offer, buyers can become so focused on getting the house that they don't always stop to think about every term they're agreeing to.
Jamie encourages buyers to understand:
- How much earnest money they're depositing
- When the deposit is due
- Who will hold it
- What contractual protections may apply
- What could potentially put the deposit at risk
The goal isn't simply to make an offer look attractive.
It's to understand the offer you're actually making.
Sellers: Don't Look at the Deposit in Isolation
For sellers comparing multiple offers, a larger earnest money deposit may catch their attention.
But Jamie encourages sellers to evaluate the entire offer, not just one number.
A strong offer may involve the purchase price, financing, contingencies, closing timeline, deposit, and other terms.
Ultimately, sellers want to consider not only what an offer looks like on paper, but also the overall terms of the transaction.
The Biggest Lesson?
In The Real Estate Classroom - Jamie, Jamie's advice for both sides is simple:
Don't just focus on the dollar amount. Understand what the earnest money represents.
If you're the buyer, understand what you're putting at stake and what the agreement says.
If you're the seller, understand what the deposit means within the context of the entire offer and what the contract says if the transaction doesn't close.
Because earnest money isn't just another number on a real estate contract.
It's an important part of the transaction and both sides should understand exactly how it works before signing.
Jamie McKenty
Realtor | Opus Elite Real Estate | The Real Estate Classroom - Jamie
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